Câu hỏi: Read the following passage and mark the letter A, B, C, or D on your answer sheet to indicate the correct answer to each of the questions from 44 to 50
The human desire for companionship may feel boundless, but research suggests that our social capital is finite. Social scientists have used a number of ingenious approaches to gauge the size of people's social networks; these have returned estimates ranging from about 250 to about 5,500 people. An undergraduate thesis from MIT focusing exclusively on Franklin D. Roosevelt, a friendly guy with an especially social job, suggested that he might have had as many as 22,500 acquaintances. Looking more specifically at friendship, a study using the exchange of Christmas cards as a proxy for closeness put the average person's friend group at about 121 people.
However vast our networks may be, our inner circle tends to be much smaller. The average American trusts only 10 to 20 people. Moreover, that number may be shrinking: From 1985 to 2004, the average number of confidants that people reported having decreased from three to two. This is both sad and consequential, because whoever has strong social relationships tends to live longer than those who don't.
So what should you do if your social life is lacking? Just follow the research. To begin with, don't dismiss the humble acquaintance. Even interacting with people with whom one has weak social ties has a meaningful influence on well-being. Beyond that, building deeper friendships may be largely a matter of putting in time.
A recent study out of the University of Kansas found that it takes about 50 hours of socializing to go from acquaintance to casual friend, an additional 40 hours to become a "real" friend, and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend. If that sounds like too much effort, reviving dormant social ties can be especially rewarding. Reconnected friends can quickly recapture much of the trust they previously built, while offering each other a dash of novelty drawn from whatever they've been up to in the meantime. And if all else fails, you could start randomly confiding in people you don't know that well in hopes of letting the tail wag the relational dog. The academic literature is clear: Longing for closeness and connection is pervasive. Which suggests that most of us are stumbling through the world pining for companionship that could be easily provided by the lonesome stumblers all around us.
A. Social scientists are very creative in their methods to measure a person's sociability.
B. If one has a large number of relationships, it must mean that they are all superficial.
C. Most of the studies listed are instructive on socialising methods and recommendations.
D. A normal person require a number of 200 hours on average to form a close friendship.
The human desire for companionship may feel boundless, but research suggests that our social capital is finite. Social scientists have used a number of ingenious approaches to gauge the size of people's social networks; these have returned estimates ranging from about 250 to about 5,500 people. An undergraduate thesis from MIT focusing exclusively on Franklin D. Roosevelt, a friendly guy with an especially social job, suggested that he might have had as many as 22,500 acquaintances. Looking more specifically at friendship, a study using the exchange of Christmas cards as a proxy for closeness put the average person's friend group at about 121 people.
However vast our networks may be, our inner circle tends to be much smaller. The average American trusts only 10 to 20 people. Moreover, that number may be shrinking: From 1985 to 2004, the average number of confidants that people reported having decreased from three to two. This is both sad and consequential, because whoever has strong social relationships tends to live longer than those who don't.
So what should you do if your social life is lacking? Just follow the research. To begin with, don't dismiss the humble acquaintance. Even interacting with people with whom one has weak social ties has a meaningful influence on well-being. Beyond that, building deeper friendships may be largely a matter of putting in time.
A recent study out of the University of Kansas found that it takes about 50 hours of socializing to go from acquaintance to casual friend, an additional 40 hours to become a "real" friend, and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend. If that sounds like too much effort, reviving dormant social ties can be especially rewarding. Reconnected friends can quickly recapture much of the trust they previously built, while offering each other a dash of novelty drawn from whatever they've been up to in the meantime. And if all else fails, you could start randomly confiding in people you don't know that well in hopes of letting the tail wag the relational dog. The academic literature is clear: Longing for closeness and connection is pervasive. Which suggests that most of us are stumbling through the world pining for companionship that could be easily provided by the lonesome stumblers all around us.
(source: https://www.theatlantic.com/)
The following statements are true, EXCEPT _______.A. Social scientists are very creative in their methods to measure a person's sociability.
B. If one has a large number of relationships, it must mean that they are all superficial.
C. Most of the studies listed are instructive on socialising methods and recommendations.
D. A normal person require a number of 200 hours on average to form a close friendship.
Kiến thức: Đọc hiểu
Giải thích:
Các tuyên bố sau đây là đúng, ngoại trừ .
A. Các nhà khoa học xã hội rất sáng tạo trong các phương pháp của họ để đo lường tính xã hội của một người.
B. Nếu một người có số lượng lớn các mối quan hệ, điều đó có nghĩa là tất cả họ đều hời hợt.
C. Hầu hết các nghiên cứu được liệt kê là hướng dẫn về các phương pháp và khuyến nghị xã hội hóa.
D. Một người bình thường cần trung bình 200 giờ để hình thành một tình bạn thân thiết.
Căn cứ vào thông tin:
- Social scientists have used a number of ingenious approaches to gauge the size of people's social networks.
(Các nhà khoa học xã hội đã sử dụng một số cách tiếp cận khéo léo để đánh giá quy mô của con người mạng lưới xã hội) → Loại A
- ... and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend.
(và tổng cộng 200 giờ để trở thành một người bạn thân thiết. → Loại D
- So what should you do if your social life is lacking? Just follow the research. To begin with, don't dismiss the humble acquaintance.... Beyond that, building deeper friendships may be largely a matter of putting in time.
(Vậy bạn nên làm gì nếu cuộc sống xã hội của bạn thiếu thốn? Chỉ cần làm theo nghiên cứu. Để bắt đầu, don lồng bỏ người quen khiêm tốn... Ngoài ra, xây dựng tình bạn sâu sắc hơn có thể phần lớn là vấn đề đặt thời gian.) → Liệt kê cách để xã hội hóa → Loại C.
- B không có thông tin không bài
Giải thích:
Các tuyên bố sau đây là đúng, ngoại trừ .
A. Các nhà khoa học xã hội rất sáng tạo trong các phương pháp của họ để đo lường tính xã hội của một người.
B. Nếu một người có số lượng lớn các mối quan hệ, điều đó có nghĩa là tất cả họ đều hời hợt.
C. Hầu hết các nghiên cứu được liệt kê là hướng dẫn về các phương pháp và khuyến nghị xã hội hóa.
D. Một người bình thường cần trung bình 200 giờ để hình thành một tình bạn thân thiết.
Căn cứ vào thông tin:
- Social scientists have used a number of ingenious approaches to gauge the size of people's social networks.
(Các nhà khoa học xã hội đã sử dụng một số cách tiếp cận khéo léo để đánh giá quy mô của con người mạng lưới xã hội) → Loại A
- ... and a total of 200 hours to become a close friend.
(và tổng cộng 200 giờ để trở thành một người bạn thân thiết. → Loại D
- So what should you do if your social life is lacking? Just follow the research. To begin with, don't dismiss the humble acquaintance.... Beyond that, building deeper friendships may be largely a matter of putting in time.
(Vậy bạn nên làm gì nếu cuộc sống xã hội của bạn thiếu thốn? Chỉ cần làm theo nghiên cứu. Để bắt đầu, don lồng bỏ người quen khiêm tốn... Ngoài ra, xây dựng tình bạn sâu sắc hơn có thể phần lớn là vấn đề đặt thời gian.) → Liệt kê cách để xã hội hóa → Loại C.
- B không có thông tin không bài
Đáp án B.